Ember & Oak × Bosley Lens & Co. · The First Spark Project

The Second
Chapter

50+
Maybe it's time to feel that spark again.

Apply for the First Spark Project

What is First Spark?

Maybe meeting someone can feel a little more human.

The First Spark Project is Ember & Oak's take on modern matchmaking.

Singles apply. We get to know a little about each person, choose two people we believe could genuinely connect, and create their first date for them.

No endless messaging. No trying to decide where to go. No awkward planning.

Just two people showing up to see if there's a spark.

How it works

Three simple steps. One very real first date.

Applying doesn't guarantee a match. We thoughtfully review applications and select a pairing for each First Spark experience.

01

Apply

Tell us about yourself, what you're looking for and the kind of person you hope to meet.

02

We Match

We review the applications and thoughtfully choose two people we believe may have something worth exploring.

03

The First Date

Ember & Oak plans the date. You simply arrive, meet your match and see what happens.

The First Spark Project · 50+

The Second
Chapter

This round of The First Spark Project is for singles 50+ who are still open to meeting someone new and seeing where a genuine connection might lead.

We're looking for people willing to trade the apps and endless messaging for one thoughtfully planned, face-to-face first date.

No pressure to force a love story. Just an opportunity to meet someone you may never have crossed paths with otherwise.

If you're chosen

Your first date is already planned.

$125 per person · if selected
  • A thoughtfully planned and styled first date by Ember & Oak
  • A beautiful setting designed for you to sit, talk and genuinely get to know one another
  • Professional photos from your First Spark date by Bosley Lens & Co.
  • All styling, setup and takedown
  • A one-of-a-kind First Spark experience with your match

Applying is free. The $125 per person experience cost is only payable if you are selected for a First Spark match.

What happens next?

We'll take care of the first date.

The selected pair will be invited to a private Ember & Oak experience designed to give them the chance to actually talk, laugh and get to know one another.

Maybe there's chemistry. Maybe there's friendship. Maybe it's simply a really lovely date with someone new.

That's the whole point — we don't know what happens next.

Where it started

It started with one first date.

The First Spark Project began as a collaboration between Ember & Oak and Bosley Lens & Co.: take two singles willing to try something different, create a beautiful first date for them, and give them the space to see what happens.

We brought the first chapter to life together — from thoughtfully reviewing applications and creating the match to planning the date and documenting the experience.

Now First Spark is back for The Second Chapter, created by Ember & Oak × Bosley Lens & Co., with another chance for two people to meet in a way that feels a little more intentional.

Read the Story

The story behind
First Spark.

Want to see how the project began? Bosley Lens & Co. documented the first First Spark experience — from the idea behind the project to what happened when two strangers finally met.

When Two Strangers Meet — Inside The First Spark Project Looking for Love in Kamloops? Try This Instead

Stories & photography · Bosley Lens & Co.

The First Chapter

A little more from where it all began.

Real moments from the original First Spark Project — a thoughtfully planned first date, photographed as it naturally unfolded.

The original First Spark Project date
First Spark Project date photographed by Bosley Lens and Co.
A moment from the original First Spark Project

Think you're ready?

Your next first date could start here.

Apply to The First Spark Project and tell us a little about yourself. Applying is completely free — the $125 per person experience cost only applies if you're selected for a match.

Apply for the First Spark Project The Second Chapter · 50+ · Kamloops, British Columbia · Ember & Oak × Bosley Lens & Co.